Neil,
At first sight you may believe that you are receiving conflicting information, however, the following, with acknowledgements to the Caravan Club may clarify:
*Quote* "3.5.16 Sensing Device.
The wiring standards for 12S and 13 pin systems include provision for a 'sensing device'.
This is intended to allow the towing vehicle to detect that a trailer is present,and thus make any appropriate adjustments (eg. turn off towing vehicle fog lights; adjust gearbox/engine settings etc.). The Club is not currently aware of any towing vehicle which uses this facility, and hence this circuit can usually be ignored. The exception is if towing a continental built- caravan. In this case, ensure that neither 12S pin 2 nor 12S pin5 in the caravan is connected to earth. If it is, then a dead short may occur, blowing a fuse or causing damage to the circuits. To avoid this, disconnect the relevant circuit in either the caravan or towing vehicle before hitching up. No such possible conflicts should occur with UK-built caravans, nor if using a 13 pin connector" *End of quote*
With more and more continental vans being sold in the UK, it is as well to be aware of this.