I'm not trying to confuse the issue. Nose load is needed to help maintain the stability of a trailer, but there is no fixed correct value It does not mean it is sensible or even necessary to use up all the available capacity.
The capacity is determined by the "S " value or nose load limits for the car, and the trailer. You have to be guided by the lowest "S" value if there is a difference.
The amount of nose load needed is only needs to be enough to enable the outfit remains controllable.
The optimum, nose load value for any given outfit cannot be easily calculated, as it is dependant on many different factors, some of which include road conditions, and how actually distribute the load inside your trailer, so it can vary from journey to journey. And whilst it is generally the case that more is better than less, there is nothing gained by using more than is necessary.
It has been found that for caravans, aiming for about 5 to 7% of MTPLM does usually produce an effective value. However that can be a problem with some tow vehicles where the cars "S" value may only have the capacity to allow 4%. Perhaps this suggests the match might be poor, but due to the variabilities involved it might work perfectly well.