Hello Vernon,
If you are on your third regulator with the previous two failing with the same condition, them it strongly suggests that the regulator is not at fault, but something else, most likely the flexible neoprene hoses.
The gas system is demonstrably not fit for purpose, and under consumer regulations, the supplier is responsible to ensure it is repaired or repalced. A re-occurance of the the difficulty clearly shows the dealer has failed to resolve the problem. I would be concerned that if the regulator has been invaded by this black residue then it may have spread beyond and contaminated the copper pipework and some of the appliances.
You do have rights under consumer law, and you should seek proffesional advice, but I think you could insist that tyour supplier (not the manufacturer) should replace the affected parts of the gas system.
see:-
]http://www.dti.gov.uk/consumers/fact-sheets/page24702.html