hi Paul,
while on the subject of weight ratios and recomendations I usualy agree with the Prof because his explanations are usualy accurate when the technical stuff comes out for an airing? and would both agree that idealy the trailer weight should be as light as possible on any combo,as a starting point, there are many ways to do this apart from the obvious ones though.
however and this is only a personal view you understand I also tend to look at things a little deeper in to the nitty gritty type of stuff that you would not find going through reams of technical data and sometimes use unscientific gut instinct to make my own decisions on.
a case in point was when I bought a Megane 1.9 diesel to tow our bailey which is just under 1100kg the cars kerb weight was only 1140kg so on paper would be a 97% tow ratio, however I worked out that while the weight difference was marginal with careful loading I reckond it would be ok weight wise if the engine power was sufficient to pull the total unit weight. in this I was confident as the same engine and running gear was fitted to far heavier vehicles like the Laguna, Espace, and Renault Traffic van. as it turned out I was more than pleased with it and used it for 3 years with no issues at all.
this brings me to the Astra 1.7ctdi while looking at the figures it seems ok to me with a approximate kerb weight of 1365kg against a trailer MTPLM of 1247kg it would give a tow ratio just over 90% and while a little high should be managable considering the vehicle manufacturer puts the max trailer tow load at 1400kg.
however the main question has to be wether you feel the vehicle has suffient power to pull a total weight of 3102kg or to put it another way 30kg per 1hp. in this I may be of help, based on my present unit same van but towed with a 1.7cdti meriva 100bhp the cars approximate kerb weight is 1422kg van the same 1100kg total 2522kg a little less than your preposed outfit but still in the same ball park.
I can confirm the engines power output is more than capable of towing anywhere a recent trip down the motor way gave a top gear tow @ 2300rpm "58mph" with ease, a return trip over the yorkshire moors was not too difficult however lots of gear changes were needed on the hilly bits.
in the end it's down to how you feel about it one suggestion I would make is if you are not sure try to borrow a trailer of similar weight and give it a try, if that is possible if not try the Astra owners club and ask if any members tow with the same car,
sorry if my post is a little long winded but you really have to be sure the combo will work for you as mistakes can be expensive in the long run.
colin