We are on a site with a couple of interesting situations.
Firstly, the pitches are hard standing, but the water point is in the grassy center spine of the middle rows of the four runs of pitches. The electric hook ups also run down the ceter grass area, so draging water barrels down the center is fraught with trip hazaeds. But the direct route to the taps from each roadway means you have to walk between vans on the seperation grass area. I tend to walk closer to the caravan rather than closer to the other van's awning, as here there is less likelyhood of children playing on the grass. But then you are possibly encroaching on peoples privacy. Having said that oe does have to get water and empty the grey waste. Also when pitching, if you don't want this intrusion then don't choose that pitch unless you have no choice.
The second one is, we are pitched on a corner pitch next to the roadway to the tent area. I chose this pitch at the start of the season so that we could park two cars at the van without causing nuisence to other campers. But what I didn't bargain for was tenters cutting the corner so close to the end of the van. They got as close as 3 feet away from the van in their cars despite having a 50 yard area to use. I have had to put a solar powered lamp out 10ft from the corner of the van so that we don't have a camper crash into our car, or worse still run over a pedestrian. We still get people walking inside of the lamp cutting the corner but hey ho, we just put up.
Etiquet doesn't realy come into it as such but what we have to decide is what is practical or acceptable in each individual situation.
Also of coarse you will also get those who think they are "so much better than yow" who will think they can rule the roost. Then there's people like me who don't care if you are a lord or a servant as to me we are all the same and eat of the same side of the plate etc etc.
As an example we have a famous colomist for the angling times on our site, who I repaired his van as he was no electrician, we have a police woman, we also have several othe financial and clerical people, but when we are in shorts and tea shirts and sipping wine at the barbie we are all the same. Just people chilling and having fun.
Atb Steve L.