There are loads of other factors - car loading, van loading and inherent stability of the car and van separately.
Smart cars, Suzuki Jeeps and some A class Mercedes have had stability problems solo so would probably make bad tow cars even at 50%.
My personal experience is a comparison between
Shogun LWB 2.5TD - heavy but with high centre of gravity and long travel soft suspension
And a
Seat Alhambra - lighter but much firmer suspension, wheel at each corner and lower centre of gravity.
Towing the same van the Alhambra was a much more stable towcar, and I am not even sure I would enjoy towing our present van with the Shogun.
This is not an attempt to relaunch the 4x4 debate again - I like 4x4s and there are definite circumstances where they can shine.
I also imagine a Hummer with its high weight and wide track would be unbeatable in terms of stability.
Just trying to point out that there is much more to stable outfits than straightforward weight ratios.