Agree there may be a degree of confusion in this. The normal set up is a single heavy duty cable direct from the battery to the rear of the car. There is usually a main 15 amp fuse fitted just after the cable leaves the live terminal of the battery. This cable then powers the various towing aids required. These can vary depending on whether the car has bulb failure devices etc. There also can be a 10 amp fuse protecting the split relays themselves, but this is normally in the boot beside the relay unit.
A lot depends on whether the system is just for the 12S socket, or is for both 12N and 12S sockets, and of course the manufacturer. I found on my last car fitted with a '7' type relay that if the trailer was not connected then no power was seen at the sockets. That caused confusion for a while.