The thing with poles is that its just practice. The more you do a thing the easier it becomes. Much better to learn properly than with little gadgets or tricks.
With modern awnings, many of the poles are pre-joined making the decisions a lot less difficult. Think about it logically, if it has a spike its a leg, a hook is a roof bar, the side legs have an angle attached, the centre usually a T piece. I just dont get what people find so hard. Shouldnt be any more difficult than your pitching and packing routines.
Most manufacturers have videos on Youtube about awning building and they are invaluable. Thanks to the Isabella one, we now put our whole awning up and pack away in one piece, something we have never done before. Being short, I used to have to use a step to put the thing up, thanks to their technique, now I dont, and the thing I find the hardest of all, getting it rolled properly is now a doddle. i kid you not, for us, it really used to be "divorce in a bag". So so easy now.