Herself says that reirement is twice the husband on half the money!
Having been finished now for almost 7 years, I must say that it is the second best thing I've ever done.(The best was marrying my good lady!)But beware that if you do it properly it becomes a full-time job.
As you're probably well aware, we spend a lot of time away in the caravan.(20 weeks last year, proposed 22 this year.) this could possibly be longer, but Herself doesn't like to be away for more than six weeks at a time.
I do genuinely find that there is now less time than when I worked, but that is simply because there's always tomorrow!
Work used to take up to 10 hours out of 24, sleep accounted for around eight, leaving only 6 for leisure. This meant that any job tackled had to be finished as quickly as possible. Now it doesn't, cos there'll be time to finish it another day.
Another thing of course is that whatever it is you're doing, you're generally doing cos you want to , whereas at work, you did it because you had to, therefore what you do in retirement is generally pleasure.Alright, not always,(I didn't like cleaning the drains), but generally. As for the drains, when we were working, we'd have paid someone to do it!
That brings us to MONEY. This is frequently the reason why people put off retiring.Well, yes, we are fortunate enough to have decent pensions between us, but it is surprising what you can manage without.Our car and caravan are both very old, but well maintained and I expect them to see out our caravanning days if we continue to look after them. Our house would have been paid for but for ST*****d ****, but the mortgage is managable. Other costs are probably pretty much the same as everyone else in our position.
I do quite a bit of charity work ( I'm chair of the Board of Trustees of a local charity)which fits in around our caravanning life,and gives me an interest outside the home. It is also very rewarding, in a way that paid employment never was.
All in all, life is pretty good for us, except perhaps that Herself's health could be a lot better, but we've slowed life down to cope with that.She has a super-duper electric scooter, so we can still walk the dogs together every day, but most of all, we have each other as soul-mates and companions, so we can cope with whatever life throws at us. We are also very lucky to have a lovely daughter and son-in-law, and just down the road our son and duaughter-in-law, who look after us very well.
We live in a small village, where everyone is friendly and has a good community spirit.
Life is pretty good just now. I'd just like it to continue like this indefinately!!!!