Rob
Steve is right. When you post a message, it will appear immediately on the forum. If yours did not appear, then there was a fault somewhere along the line.
There are 3 moderators regularly checking new posts. We operate within the published forum etiquette rules as well as a liberable dose of common sense.
Whenever possible, if we take the step of removing a post, we try to send the poster a personal email explaining why. Obviously on those occasions when a thread has deteriorated into an unseemly argument and the whole thread has been deleted, sending individual emails to all contributors may not be viable.
With such a wide variety of personalities and opinions on a forum like this, whatever we do we will never please everyone. We are all 3 of us volunteer enthusiastic amateur caravanners doing our best. It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it.
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