BryanTheSnail said:Going back to the relay point, auto relays would easily cope with the load, and if overloaded would burn out, thereafter not work at all, not intermitantly.
You could test out the switching relay if that is how you car is wired by checking caravan fridge feed voltage which will be zero with engine stopped, and rise to 13 volts ish with engine running at about 1500 rpm. .
Woodentop said:It is most likely that the voltage sensing relay (in the rear of the car) that switches the power on to the fridge (and the habitation relay) when connected to the car needs adjustment. A bit of Googling will explain how to do it - takes minutes with a small screwdriver.