Sep 25, 2013
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I'm Norm, on the editorial team of Practical Caravan, and I'll be popping on the site occasionally to seek input or suggest topics you may want to discuss.

Many of you may recall the letter from Tony Stirling, a man who was recently widowed; he asked for advice about whether he should stop caravanning. A flood of responses came in from people who had also been bereaved; their message was one of encouragement.

Now we've received another response to Tony's question, also from a widower who decided to resume touring. He writes:

"Dear Mr Stirling

"In reply to your letter in the Practical Caravan Forum, I sympathise with your dilemma whether to continue caravanning solo. I have the same problem, having lost my dear wifr in June last year.

"We had caravanned since 1965 and after 57 years of marriage it leaves one devastated. I plucked up the courage in the September to tour on my own, far from being enjoyable I felt one has to get away from 4 walls and meet people.

"I will be doing the same this coming season at the age of 79, I hope you decide to continue.

"I read an article last year in C.C magazine, a lady had lost her husband and decided to downsize her car and caravan, and with her dog was driving to the Algarve to spend the winter, I applaud her.

"In case you may be interested I enclose details of a club for people who camp alone. "

RS Garner, Bognor Regis

He sent along the contact details of the New Companions Club: 51 Copse Hill, Harlow, Essex CM19 4PN. Tel: 01279 422791

Membership secretary; Mrs June Lawrence

Have other people found similar organisations a help in getting started? Are there other groups that specifically serve this segment of the community? Do other clubs have sub-groups or events aimed at these individuals?

We welcome your input on this.
 
May 12, 2006
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Hi Norm,

Can I just say I applaud your post, even though we are maried I can see the reason why many peole would wish to continue caravanning, when a loved one has passed away.

Every help and encouragement should be offered to make this transition as comfortable as possible.

May I offer that your post may attract more attention under General or Chit-Chit, I only spotted it out of curiosity under UK Parks and Touring.

Val & Frank
 
Sep 14, 2005
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Hi Norm & Frank

I read with interest the two articles above.My family and I are experiencing a similar sort of dilemna.

We lost our 2yr old daughter in a tragic accident last August whilst on holiday in our caravan. Its been in storage since then and the thought of using it again is too painful as you can imagine. We have 3 other children, 2 of whom want to go back in the van and holiday again, my wife isn`t as keen. Im unsure how im going to feel. I want to do the right thing for my family but dont know what that right thing is. Its the first time ive opened up about this, and its helped.
 
May 12, 2006
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Hi Alan,

I have no expertise in these matters,but I thought your post showed what traumatic episodes people go through in life. All I can offer is by the way you constructed your post I feel sure that you will end up doing what is best for your family.

Should you start to caravan again,if you ever see a youngish looking 60 year old who hails from Accrington tows a Bessacarr Cameo with a Burgundy Toyota L.C. Please feel free to call in for a chat or drink.

Our Very Best Regards

Val & Frank
 
Apr 4, 2005
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Hello Alan

It is difficult to put thoughts into words for your situation but the thing that occurred to me was perhaps you could start again with a different caravan which could have less painful memories. With best wishes Chris
 
Jan 19, 2008
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alan, I have to concur with Chrissylizzie and change the caravan. I would also find it too painful to use the same van and appreciate what you both must be going through.
 
Mar 14, 2005
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Although never thankfully experienced the sorrow and hurt of the past and the predicament that you and the family face I think that changing the caravan could be the first step to returning to the hobby if it is your so desire. It must be very hurtful even to think of going to the van in storage to make it presentable for selling purposes. I am sure that all contributers sympathise with you and hope that whatever the decision it is the best for you and the family. I only hope that you and your wife are now looking to the future as a team for all family members to progress with confidence. Good luck to you all for the future.
 
Apr 3, 2007
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Im so sorry to hear of your loss & i agree with others, maybe change your caravan and try to continue with your hobby but maybe to see if your wife could cope with a caravan holiday agsain why not try a static van holiday just for a long weekend.

I do hope you can return to caravanning.

Julie
 

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