Lisa, believe me, towing a caravan is easier than towing a trailer - I assume you mean the small 4ft x 5ft types of thing. For a start, you can see the caravan. The wheels are further from the car than a small trailer so it has a greater turning circle, meaning it does not quickly turn so it is 90 degrees to the car. I've been towing a caravan for over three years now and do not mind admitting that sometimes it goes absolutely fantastic - and other times oh so wrong when reversing onto a pitch. Yes, other caravanners are very helpful and if anyone watches you getting it wrong it will only be that it strikes a chord with them. When towing on the road go at your own pace. If there is a build up behind and you can pull in do so, if not do not be intimidated. Those behind might be delayed by a few minutes but, if you feel pressured into towing with the feeling that you are not safe then that is the time that things could go wrong and they might be delayed by a couple of hours. So relax, work as a team and try to keep to wide roads to start with until your confidence builds. As for setting up, there are no prizes for who can set up fastest. Over time you will develop a routine and when you pitch each of you ill know what their task is. Remember to laugh at things not cry.