Hello Alan,
It is my experiance that the pressure switched systems only pulse as you describe if there is a leak, it only needs to be a drip from a tap, or some other joint in the system, but that will eventually drop the pressue enough to cause the pump to turn on.
I suggest you check the system for leaks. Sometimes teh culprit is teh presure switch its self, which has a non-return valve built in. If eh NRV does not seat properly some water pressure will be 'leaked' straight back into the water tank so no external leak will be obvious.
As a fix it untill you can check the system fully you can turn off the master pump switch at night.