Sorry chaps, just got back from holiday today.
So was unable to thank the 100 plus who debated on the locked topic.
Having read some 95 posts, i'm puzzled as to why its locked??
Just when i thought this site was dead, it appears that lively debate is still possible, but apparently, not for long.
So it appears i have confused the maximum trailer weight, with MPTLM.
I knew the nose weight could be deducted, but now understand not from the allowed MPTLM.
As the xtrail has a braked trailer limit of 2200kg, towing 1600kg is not a problem, legally.
As suggested i will transfer more weight to the car, and try to get the rig onto a weigh bridge.
I didn't think that the OP would have provoked so much interest!