I'm afraid this is where I get on my soap box.
First of all you must not exceed the "LOWER"stated nose/hitch weight of either the caravan or the tow bar of the car.
If you have excessive nose weight you run the risk of the caravan over run brake mechanisum failing to operate due to excessive frictional resistance in the bushes caused by excess weight.
I all too often see cars towing caravans with the back of the car almost on the floor and the front is heading for the stars. This is clearly too much nose weight and bloody dangerous. You see as soon as you hit the brakes in vengence, the wheels lock up and you have lost steering control. Most cars these days are front wheel drive and in the load condition described you will have difficulty pulling away from junctions without spinning the wheels.
By the way all of the above is also illegal under "construction and use" or "dangerous/driving without due care and attention" laws. 3 points and a hefty fine is the result if caught.
Firstly you should establish the correct nose weight for your caravan via the manufacturer or an owners club. Then consult your car hand book and talk to the tow bar manufacturer to get the data for your car. The lowest figure quote by either is the max safe/legal nose weight.
For my oufit 75Kgs is the figure and towing at between 65 and 75Kgs on the hitch gives an excellent tow even with a 20ft twin axle van behind our 1998 Laguna estate. (100% of cars tow capacity)
I would say conservatively that 75% of all towing accidents are caused by lack of attention to load distribution and that means any trailer.
I'm afraid the next comment might twang a few raw nerves among our "all wheel drive community", but all too often I get the impression that the ill informed car driver seeks comfort in using a heavy 4X4 to compensate for poor loading skills.
Now before the barage of insults start about what I drive or how I drive, I will add that I have driven all types of tow vehicles from a Morris Minor, Landrover, Diahatsu, Unimog etc etc right upto 44 ton artics. Oh and of coarse driven cars faster than most folk can think of as I'm an experimental engineer and prototype tester by trade. Im also AIM and ROSPA trained and approved by Aston Martin/Lotus for high speed test track driving.
Even with a large repatoire of experience and 30 years of towing behind me, I still weigh the hitch before a journey. Also as with any driving I still see things to learn from on the roads to day.
It's attention to the fine details that will make your caravanning life both easy and enjoyable.
Steve L.