Hello Allan,
I'm sorry if you find this topic comedic, it is not, as getting it wrong may result in points on your licence!
Taking your points in order:
"surly in that case there should be a disclaimer"
I do not have a Bailey so I cannot comment on their specific documentation, but it is usually the case that most manufacture do include a disclaimer or the phrase 'E&OE'.
"I think it can all get a bit to technical if you look to deep in to it in some respects".
This subject by its nature is a technical subject, and by glossing over the technicalities, errors and misunderstandings arise.
"We have Lutz recommending that nose weight be measured at hitch height,"
Lutz has already defended his position on that one.
"but that in it`s self is variable due to road undulations, in my own case I aim to reach 75 kg with the van on a level road, with the van level to the eye."
If you achieve 75Kg with the caravan level, then you hitch up and the nose drops so the caravan is actually nose down, then the hitch load actually increases, so your 75Kg max is now greater and exceeds the specification for your cars tow hitch. That is why the nose load must be measured at the same hitch height as when it is hitched to the car in towing configuration, nose up, level or down.
"That also reminds me I recently bought (last year) a Reich nose weight gauge, the type that fits on to the ball, and to be quiet honest John it is the most inaccurate piece of equipment imaginable, and I must return it and seek a refund............back to the tried and trusted bathroom scales"
All the commercial units I have seen, do not inspire confidence in their ability to accurately display the nose load of my trailers either through the coarseness of their graduations, and/or lack of height adjustment, and no certificate of calibration.
We have to abide by the law, which over-rides any recommendations made by a manufacturer.