I found that my tow ball did wear quite significantly. I had trouble with a tow ball and I decided to measure the ball. I trained as a toolmaker long ago.
That tow ball had been used over many years for an estimated 35 thousand towing miles, on my Defender 90. I found it to be worn out of spherical and well outside the allowed manufacturing tolerances.
This was pre adopting dry ball stabilisers, I used to grease lubricate it and towed both heavy trailers and caravans.
I no longer have the data I took however I recall that it had worn significantly where the trailer weight was taken and under the ball where the securing collar piece contacts. It was far from uniform wear, being the lost of a true sphere where stated.
On trying to purchase a replacement ball the shocking thing is that the first few balls sold in various outlets that I measured were barely on the lower tolerance, some even were plated. The original ball was plated and where worn was well through the plating.
I did finally get a ball, a Land Rover genuine item that was on the positive side of the diameter tolerance, this was not plated, a blued finish.
How important balls remaining within the diameter aspect of the manufacturing tolerance, is once in service I don’t know, I took the view that, as there is a standard then I wanted a ball that was within tolerance whilst in use.