HI baz the brake lights will onnly work of the tow cars lights but see wot you mean about your system suddenly slowing you down so i am not to sure but thought i would have go at questionYes i agree but if the unit slows significantly then the lights should illuminate for a short time, you could end up with some one driving into the rear of the van, Just like slowing down for the change in speed limits and drivers dont dab the brakes as a warning to whoever is behind. Just a thought Bazz.