hi,
I think the truth is if ones leaves out the emotion, [which unfortunatly some in the anti smoking lobby are unable to do] there is a common ground, but in order to find it one has to has to accept there are other points of view just as valid. if the latest round is really about protecting the kids, why choose a measure that costs nothing to implement when measures that would make the world of difference, are swept under the carpet because they cost money, cuts in welfare hurt the poorest, and most of these have kids, cut in social care means the there are less social workers on the ground to look after the interests of the most vunerable of our kids, child obesity is at a record level without any action and more and more kids are exposed to the use of alcohol, but there is little ever done. yet the law makers pick one measure in a long line of measures that deemed to be popular, make a big hoorah about it and hope people will forget about all the other things that would make a bigger difference for the kids it is almost like a magician using misdirection to fool us, but not all see it that way and thats how they keep getting away with it.
when the first round of anti smoking laws, were enacted people said hooray I cant' go into pubs any more because of the smoke, fine, may be that was true for some, however they still cannot go into the pub they liked and the trouble is one one else can either as it is probably closed now along with the other 150 that close every month. smoking or non smoking pubs would just have been as effective, and probably saved some of those now closed pubs. non smoking in the work place what a good idea but what has changed very little people still smoke only now go out side into a smoke shelter, which the employer has to provide at a cost, or outside the gates affecting anyone who just happens to be passing by.
some of the anti smoking mafia [thanks Parsky] insist it is their complete right not to be in the presence of anyone who smokes so therefore it should be banned as this restricts their movements, this arguement is illogical as everyone has the same rights of movement wether they smoke or not, a simple method is not to go there, give them a wide berth then every one should be happy, there is no point in throwing a wobbly because some lights up in a place there entitled to do just move away, like the other day I was walking through the park, and decided to sit down on a bench, next to a guy having a smoke, why should he have to put it out because a non smoker sat next to him he has the same right to sit there as I did, I was the one who sat there while he was smoking. if I was that bothered I would have sat somewhere else, not that hard is it, why expect a whole park to be smoke free just so one can sit on any bench one wishes makes no sense to me, but then I am one of those reasonable people that rarely gets a say as no one wants to listen to a reasonable alternative,
I dont smoke, but I dont expect everybody so stop just to please me, why should I.
I dont drink either doesn't mean I want alcohol banned,
I no longer have a dog so why should every one get rid of theirs, even if they do make a mess and bark a lot,
and the big one I no longer have a caravan, should I now want those banning as well, because I get behind one now and again, bl**dy ridicules, live and let live do your own thing and leave other to do theirs.
look after and protect your own kids, it all you can do,