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When a gas supplier quotes a weight, that is the weight of the fuel you are purchasing, so the 7Kg is the weight of the Butane (in this case). The weight of the bottle is extra, and in most cases will be stamped on the bottle under the title of TARE Weight.
Due to different manufacturing tolerances and designs, the weight of each empty bottle will be different, so there is no definitive total weight for the bottle and its full load of gas.