Can't help you with the van - we're just thinking about getting our first. But if you're considering a 4x4...
I've driven a few over the years, on and off road, and had the pleasure of driving a couple of Discovery's the length of New Zealand. I now drive a 1996 Landcruiser VX auto - the forerunner of the Amazon.
Cons - fuel consumption is poor, the VX series have a 4.2 diesel or a 4.5 petrol.
- BIG, but not really that difficult to handle.
Pros - Surprisingly easy to drive on road. Light controls, good handling, good turning circle
- BIG! Boot space even with 8 seats down.
- Leather clad luxury motorway cruiser
- Good transit van
- Surprisingly good off-road, we kept going when a couple of Freelanders got stuck.
- Reliable, these machines just keep going.
I went for an older vehicle. With their reputation, don't be worried by mileages over 100K. I also went for the petrol version, but had it converted to LPG. At 32.9p per litre, that paid for itself in 6 months flat!