Do you feel better now after your rant! Why don't you calm down take a breath and carefully read what has been written, and stop jumping to inaccurate conclusions.
I have never claimed to be an expert on tyres, but in reality you do not know the extent of my knowledge or experience, and I do not know yours, which is always going to be issue with anonymous forums. So why should readers believe either of us?
Hopefully coherent reasoned discussion will give readers more chance to understand the issues and ultimately come to a considered choice, but as I always suggest in my signature space, readers should verify any information with professionals before acting on it.
Towing ratio recommendation of 85% is a unilateral figure with no technical justification or link to the outfit. Manufacturers tyre pressures may be recommendations, but they do have credence as they will have taken into account the range of loads the vehicle is specified to carry for the quoted tyre size.
Interestingly, the opening paragraph of the tyre companies table listing states
"For inflation pressure recommendations for the original equipment (OE)size, refer to the tire information placard (T.I.P.) or owner’s manual." The TIP is usually found attached to the vehicle.
I never stated the car manufacture selected the "best" tyre, only that it will be appropriate. What defines best is difficult, as that may be down to the drivers preference for balance between economy, grip, and cost etc.
It is my experience that Manufactures often work with suppliers to identify the optimum product for the job in hand. In this case the tyre size and rating for the vehicle. If they didn't the car would not be a roadworthy design and could not type approved.
I correctly pointed that if the size of wheel/tyre are changed from OEM standard, it may be necessary to recalculate the required pressure. I was only pointing out the necessity, I did not state I had a method. However your reference to tyre pressure tables is actually a method of calculating (as the tables are generated by doing calculations).
It is probably true that many drivers have tyres not inflated to the pressure they think they are due to the inaccuracy of most domestic measurement devices. However I did give what are acceptable pressure reading errors from commercial tyre inflation systems.