Well thanks for the replys, I did not realise this was such a hot topic!!!
Update - we have now joined the C&CC and will be going to St Neots for our first site. The only problem so far is not being able to book a one night with hook up, this is a problem as I never get home from work before 7pm. Now having 2 young boys who are also Autistic their TV is very important to them, so hook up is then important to us. Now for one night in the better weather (fingers crossed) should not be a problem.
Ok so far so good, the reason I asked about the differences between the sites was from our first few experiences.
We joined the CC and our first site was Sandringham, what a lovely site and a great play area for the kids. We spent most of our time walking on the great beaches etc. We will be returning there again. Then we tried to book Ferry Meadows. On the 3rd time of trying we got in. Now when we arrived we were not aware that there is 2 sides to the site. We were directed to the hard standing side. Now after a walk around the site with the boys to find the play area on the other side, we did get the impression that we were on the wrong side of the road and a few curtains did twitch when we were walking back to our van. We will know better for next time.
The C&CC thought came about after a walk through the woods at Sandringham and the walk took us next to the C&CC site which just seemed more relaxed and family orientated.
Hence the question.
Thanks for all the replys
Nic