I have fitted tow-bars and electrics to my last two cars.
I would like to add, I don't (yet) own a caravan, but have a trailer with N and S electrics (for reversing lights and 12v for camping power.
The "N" socket is easy as it is only for the lights, using scotch-lock connectors.
The S socket can be a problem, as you need to find a permanent live (+12v) feed, and this may involve going to the battery. This is where my knowledge ends, as I don't know about how the fridge feed, and battery charge are connected, as you need relays so power is not used when the car ignition is off.
If you have any doubts, get it fitted professionaly. You don't want to get a flat car battery if it goes wrong.