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Just been on the other Forum and having left you a message was informed that you no longer look in there!!! Why? Or shouldn't I ask!

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Hi Ann, it's a long story but I have my reasons or maybe I should say reason :O)

Lots went on what others didn't know about Ann, things in the Chat Room, PMs and MSN Messenger. I got fed up of the blatant lies (off one person) and accusations which thankfully were proved to be lies. It was because of two peoples honesty that I could help prove they were lies and because one of those people is now banned from the forum I felt that I should at least try and mediate with them and Gary but that didn't work. I now feel that I should at least show a bit of loyalty to that person and stay away myself.

To be honest Ann, it's only a forum, and I can be doing without all that crap that went on there in the last couple of days.

I hope that helps to clear things up but there are others for their own reasons who don't go there now.
 
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If I can add, the person told the three sets of lies with the sole intention of trying to get me banned. By a twist of fate with the forum shutting down and re-opening she has achieved her aim but not from me being banned but from my personal choice of not returning :O)

Thanks for the query Ann but what was your original message ;O)

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Hi Ann, it's a long story but I have my reasons or maybe I should say reason :O)

Lots went on what others didn't know about Ann, things in the Chat Room, PMs and MSN Messenger. I got fed up of the blatant lies (off one person) and accusations which thankfully were proved to be lies. It was because of two peoples honesty that I could help prove they were lies and because one of those people is now banned from the forum I felt that I should at least try and mediate with them and Gary but that didn't work. I now feel that I should at least show a bit of loyalty to that person and stay away myself.

To be honest Ann, it's only a forum, and I can be doing without all that crap that went on there in the last couple of days.

I hope that helps to clear things up but there are others for their own reasons who don't go there now.
I concur with his Lordship.

Chatbox chat is not recorded on that forum.

So you can't trust what is said when you are not there!!!
 
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Hi Ann, it's a long story but I have my reasons or maybe I should say reason :O)

Lots went on what others didn't know about Ann, things in the Chat Room, PMs and MSN Messenger. I got fed up of the blatant lies (off one person) and accusations which thankfully were proved to be lies. It was because of two peoples honesty that I could help prove they were lies and because one of those people is now banned from the forum I felt that I should at least try and mediate with them and Gary but that didn't work. I now feel that I should at least show a bit of loyalty to that person and stay away myself.

To be honest Ann, it's only a forum, and I can be doing without all that crap that went on there in the last couple of days.

I hope that helps to clear things up but there are others for their own reasons who don't go there now.
Why do you think the Nutters Box went and was replaced by the Chat Room?

Because anyone could log in the following day and read the Nutter Box chat from the Homepage, even what had been said the day before :O)

I'm not blaming Gary for changing over though because that is what some had asked for.
 
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Why do you think the Nutters Box went and was replaced by the Chat Room?

Because anyone could log in the following day and read the Nutter Box chat from the Homepage, even what had been said the day before :O)

I'm not blaming Gary for changing over though because that is what some had asked for.
Was not part of the Forum then, but saw number of posts that members would not like to have seen about themselves in the chat box!
 
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Hi Ann, it's a long story but I have my reasons or maybe I should say reason :O)

Lots went on what others didn't know about Ann, things in the Chat Room, PMs and MSN Messenger. I got fed up of the blatant lies (off one person) and accusations which thankfully were proved to be lies. It was because of two peoples honesty that I could help prove they were lies and because one of those people is now banned from the forum I felt that I should at least try and mediate with them and Gary but that didn't work. I now feel that I should at least show a bit of loyalty to that person and stay away myself.

To be honest Ann, it's only a forum, and I can be doing without all that crap that went on there in the last couple of days.

I hope that helps to clear things up but there are others for their own reasons who don't go there now.
Was not part of the Forum then, but saw number of posts that members would not like to have seen about themselves in the chat box!
 

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Hehheh! Lisa :OP

I will give my parents credit, they did instill in me principles and only those who have them will know what I mean. If I can't show loyalty or honesty to anyone who has shown it to me and I went against them I couldn't live with myself.

I wont bore you with the fine details but just before I finished work I was involved in an incident. A work colleague X reported another (my crew mate). I supported my crew mate and the incident was so serious we got suspended including the colleague who had complained. Colleague X then told blatant lies about me although I had originally nothing to do with the matter. They then let colleague X go back to work and used him as a witness against us in the allegations.

At the Disiplinary Hearing it wasn't hard to prove that colleague X was a liar but the corrupt management we had at that time wanted to make an example of someone. I say corrupt because they were investigated by the NHS at the governments insistence and were so annually for the next few years.

It was touch and go but we kept our jobs. When talking to another colleague about colleague X he said "Don't worry, the good Lord doesn't pay all his debts in little green apples". I pondered this for awhile. Within 12 months colleague X had an heart attack and dropped dead, he was 41 years old.

I then understood what my mate had meant. Scarey heh what?
 

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Hehheh! Lisa :OP

I will give my parents credit, they did instill in me principles and only those who have them will know what I mean. If I can't show loyalty or honesty to anyone who has shown it to me and I went against them I couldn't live with myself.

I wont bore you with the fine details but just before I finished work I was involved in an incident. A work colleague X reported another (my crew mate). I supported my crew mate and the incident was so serious we got suspended including the colleague who had complained. Colleague X then told blatant lies about me although I had originally nothing to do with the matter. They then let colleague X go back to work and used him as a witness against us in the allegations.

At the Disiplinary Hearing it wasn't hard to prove that colleague X was a liar but the corrupt management we had at that time wanted to make an example of someone. I say corrupt because they were investigated by the NHS at the governments insistence and were so annually for the next few years.

It was touch and go but we kept our jobs. When talking to another colleague about colleague X he said "Don't worry, the good Lord doesn't pay all his debts in little green apples". I pondered this for awhile. Within 12 months colleague X had an heart attack and dropped dead, he was 41 years old.

I then understood what my mate had meant. Scarey heh what?
VERY scarey. I can't stand liars.

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Hehheh! Lisa :OP

I will give my parents credit, they did instill in me principles and only those who have them will know what I mean. If I can't show loyalty or honesty to anyone who has shown it to me and I went against them I couldn't live with myself.

I wont bore you with the fine details but just before I finished work I was involved in an incident. A work colleague X reported another (my crew mate). I supported my crew mate and the incident was so serious we got suspended including the colleague who had complained. Colleague X then told blatant lies about me although I had originally nothing to do with the matter. They then let colleague X go back to work and used him as a witness against us in the allegations.

At the Disiplinary Hearing it wasn't hard to prove that colleague X was a liar but the corrupt management we had at that time wanted to make an example of someone. I say corrupt because they were investigated by the NHS at the governments insistence and were so annually for the next few years.

It was touch and go but we kept our jobs. When talking to another colleague about colleague X he said "Don't worry, the good Lord doesn't pay all his debts in little green apples". I pondered this for awhile. Within 12 months colleague X had an heart attack and dropped dead, he was 41 years old.

I then understood what my mate had meant. Scarey heh what?
p.s. What my parents failed to instill in me is forgiveness which is another good trait to have. So in colleague X's case I never went to his funeral. I would have been tempted to pee on his grave though if he hadn't been cremated.
 
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Ann, as Lord B has said, some of us choose not to use the other forum, although as I've not been banned I do look in sometimes. I won't post on there though, just in case anything gets twisted round again. Like LB, my loyalties lie with my friends on here, but that doesn't mean we won't still love you if you post on both!
 
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Ann, as Lord B has said, some of us choose not to use the other forum, although as I've not been banned I do look in sometimes. I won't post on there though, just in case anything gets twisted round again. Like LB, my loyalties lie with my friends on here, but that doesn't mean we won't still love you if you post on both!
True Emmo .... bouquet for Ann :O)
 
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Thanks LB for trying to be diplomatic and explain things. I wasn't a member for long and never went into the 'chat room' so I didn't get the gist of what was happening. If things are so bad then I fully understand and will be very careful what I post there again (if ever). It only takes one rotten apple to destroy a whole box full!

I am glad I didn't upset too many people on this forum so I may also return to it more in the weeks ahead.

I went on the CoC forum this afternoon. I was the only one who posted since yesterday! I thought perhaps the site had 'gone down' but when I asked about the situation a reply came back saying things were quiet, perhaps due to people being away or doing other things (not the exact wording).

Anyway, I hope you, your wife and pets are managing to avoid the flooding in Hereford. I understand from the flood warning on Google that things are getting pretty bad in that neck of the woods.

Living in Sheffield has its advantages. It is likened to Rome! Built in 7 hills and we live close to the summit of one of them!

Good luck to everyone on this forum. Keep up the good natured banter.

Ann
 
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And thank you to the rest of you. Bouquet accepted. Will certainly keep on this forum and possibly peek at the other from time to time. Don't like tittle tattle so maybe won't post. It isn't in my interest to get tied up with untrustworthy people.

Sorry Lisa if I upset you in any way. Wasn't getting at you with my response to the reinstatement of the CoC forum! Friends again I hope.

Best wishes

Ann x
 
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Hi Ann

I'm not sure why you thought no one had posted in the CoC forum since the previous evening as I have checked the forum several times today and their has been a number of postings all through the day including some of my own. It could be your computer hasn't 'refreshed' properly, but I'm no expert.
 
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Hi Ann

I'm not sure why you thought no one had posted in the CoC forum since the previous evening as I have checked the forum several times today and their has been a number of postings all through the day including some of my own. It could be your computer hasn't 'refreshed' properly, but I'm no expert.
Probably so! Alas I am no techie either!

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Hi Ann

I'm not sure why you thought no one had posted in the CoC forum since the previous evening as I have checked the forum several times today and their has been a number of postings all through the day including some of my own. It could be your computer hasn't 'refreshed' properly, but I'm no expert.
Or was I banned and didn't get the message! Ann
 
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Or was I banned and didn't get the message! Ann
ooo errr. never thought of that. I didn't receive any emails one way or the other when it all exploded last week so don't really know what happened when everthing went pear shaped. It doesn't matter anyway I'm more than happy to post on either forum.
 
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f I can add, the person told the three sets of lies with the sole intention of trying to get me banned. By a twist of fate with the forum shutting down and re-opening she has achieved her aim but not from me being banned but from my personal choice of not returning :O)

Lord B,'SHE' did not tell a pack of lies, this i know because 'SHE' is my wife. I have seen these posts and want to know if you want to call me a liar as well. But there, anybody can be brave behind a keyboard!
 
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It seems everybody is knocking the other Forum. But a Forum is only as good as the people posting.

Strange that not long ago people left this forum in a rush to the other side, and slated this one. Now its all change back again. I'll wager that it wont be long before another eruption.

Nothing as queer as folk!!

Edd
 

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