I do not agree with the IET/BSi getting involved with the extra low voltage wiring and systems in a caravan. Even if there are some trailers which need a warning lamp to show if the vacuum tank is empty, this does not apply to 99.9% of caravans so there is no reason why the unused pins in the 7 pin S type plug can't be used for a second ignition/fuel cut off supply. At one time the standard relay used for towing had two sets of contacts one for caravan battery and one for fridge.
Back to basics reason for relay
1) To ensure one starting tow vehicle current is not drawn from caravan battery.
2) To ensure when engine is not running the caravan does not over discharge the tow vehicles battery.
The blocking diode does what would seem a perfect job, Sterling power does a range of diodes
starting at 70A with is likely too small for modern car, but also do a 90A, 130A, 160A and 200A versions. Volt drop is quoted with this new breed as 0.75 volt much improved to old type. I am sure they work A1 on boats where the batteries are close to each other and alternator not controlled by vehicle engine management system.
Sterling Power also do DC to DC inverters and battery discharge limiters, with a narrow boat typically having 4 x 180 Ah batteries one for engine and three for domestic battery life is important, they cost a lot to renew, and the ability to recharge from a shore supply is limited, they typically have 2 alternators on the engine and often a special alternator regulator or an alternator to battery charger, so the domestic batteries are pulse charged and the engine battery float charged from same pair of alternators.
To my mind this is over kill for a caravan, there are some huge differences.
1) Engine management stopping any external control to battery charging.
2) Long cable run between batteries with plug and socket in the middle. (Bow thrusters do have long cable run to local battery but not alternative method other than DC to DC to charge them.)
3) Short time with engine alternator running, typical narrow boat 8 hours per day, caravan unlikely to even average 3 hours per day.
4) Narrow boats can't vent under the fridge, they would sink, so there is often no gas option for safety reasons.
5) Never seen a washing machine in a caravan used to tour with, so caravan loads a lot lower.
There may be special cases, some one may want to tour to Turkey and back being on the road for an extended time with limited electric hook-up. However most of use do not really need for the few hours travelling per day to have either fridge or battery charging from car. Fridge cold before we start and hook-up on arrival is normally ample.
If something special needs keeping cold, snake bit serum for example, a cool box in car is likely better option.