The permanent feed from the 12s plug goes via one of the habitation relays, i have about 5 in my 2004 bailey, four are used.
Should you frig/short out willy nilly, with out first tracing out the circuit which applies to YOUR van, then it is possible to flatten the car battery.
This is how my system works. When the car is connected via 12s, with the engine running the supply to the fridge is "live", this live also feeds the habitation relays, via one of these relays the caravan battery is charged.
So beware, you will always have a live supply to your van while the 12s is plugged in.