I have read this post and the replies with interest and some dis-belief. Firstly, I agree with the suggestions that a trolley jack is the way to go, not a bottle jack. A trolley jack is far more stable and if the van moved a little when a lorry, for instance passed, there is less likelyhood of the van falling off the jack.
The comments about "call the RAC" or similar company are crazy.
As an experienced ex-Road Patrol Officer, we used to be called Traffic cops, what you should do is as follows:-
If you have a problem on the motorway, pull onto the hard shoulder,over as far to the verge as you can for an offside puncture, get everyone safely out of the vehicle and up the verge, and then walk to the nearest emergency telephone. Look for the marker posts, they have little phone signs on them and an arrow pointing to the nearsest phone. These phones are connected to Police control rooms and will be answered quickly. You do not even need to know where you are, the police will know that from the phone activation.
Tell them the problem. If you have a spare, request assistance to give some cover to you while you change the wheel. The police would rather assist you than deal with the carnage that could result.
I have attended several such calls over the years and found it better to change the wheel for the people, rather than wait in most cases, over an hour for the recovery firm.
If you puncture on an country A class road, pull into the first available place you can, a lay-by, company entrance-way etc. Don't just stop. Put on your hazard lights and travel very slowly. OK the tyre will be shot, maybe even the wheel, and will require replacement, but a