I have a 16 year old son who was off to the shopping centre today to trade in his PS3 for the new model, this means he has to pay £120 towards the new one. He also wanted to get his Dad a birthday present, buy some new headphones and give out some CVs in the hope of getting a weekend job. Dutifully he comes downstairs with his PS3 in its original box and a laptop bag containing his CVs.
After some discussion we have agreed:
1) He leaves his PS3 and the £120 cash at home and I will drive over with it and meet him later in case he gets jumped.
2) He leaves his laptop bag at home and puts his CVs in a rucksack due to my husband's boss being attacked on the tube when carrying a laptop bag last week (thankfully he was only bruised and battered and no laptop was in the bag).
3) He leaves his wallet at home and "splits" the cash he takes out, keeping some in the bottom of his trainers.
4) He has been told in no uncertain terms that if anyone mugs him just give everything over, money, mobile and whatever else they want.
He is now walking up the road and in quiet reflection I'm thinking "What am I teaching my son about society?" He is a very quiet unassuming boy by nature and I wonder if I'm making things worse? This is the same boy who had a new bike for Christmas, rode not a mile away to buy a birthday card for his sister, chaining his bike to the railings. 2 minutes later it was gone and the police were on the phone asking me to go and get him.
I shouldn't have to do this......should I?
After some discussion we have agreed:
1) He leaves his PS3 and the £120 cash at home and I will drive over with it and meet him later in case he gets jumped.
2) He leaves his laptop bag at home and puts his CVs in a rucksack due to my husband's boss being attacked on the tube when carrying a laptop bag last week (thankfully he was only bruised and battered and no laptop was in the bag).
3) He leaves his wallet at home and "splits" the cash he takes out, keeping some in the bottom of his trainers.
4) He has been told in no uncertain terms that if anyone mugs him just give everything over, money, mobile and whatever else they want.
He is now walking up the road and in quiet reflection I'm thinking "What am I teaching my son about society?" He is a very quiet unassuming boy by nature and I wonder if I'm making things worse? This is the same boy who had a new bike for Christmas, rode not a mile away to buy a birthday card for his sister, chaining his bike to the railings. 2 minutes later it was gone and the police were on the phone asking me to go and get him.
I shouldn't have to do this......should I?