Hello Mike P
The distribution of the weight between the main wheels , the jockey wheel and the steadies, cannot be determined by a simple percentage, it all depends on how hard the steadies/jockey wheel are driven down to the ground, and then how the weight of occupants and payload are distributed or moved during usage.
In the worst case scenario, and because they are generally located at the corners of the box, it is unlikely that a single steady will be expected to carry more than about 50% of the total weight of the caravan.
The biggest problem is not the strength of the steady itself, but what it is attached to. Too much lift on a single corner of the box can and has in many cases actually distorted the box.
As ever it is best to use chocks under the main wheels to broadly level the van side to side, then the jockey wheel to level for fore and aft, when it virtually level. Just use the steadies to hold it there.