The Natural Way

[JamesFrance]

Children would be far safer on the average naturist site than on most holiday sites.

The one at Cap d'Agde is not at all typical, most of them are small and quiet with very few British. We found the harbour at Cap d'Agde some years ago from the sea and yes, the supermarket is as described and it does seem odd to be in a bank nude, but when in Rome......

There are many listed in the Caravan Club Guidebooks so they must be popular with the members.

 

[Terry_5094524]

Tina

Don't be so daft about sickoes, wierdos or whatever else you want to call them

Remember, this is a nudist site we are talking about, any any excitement on their part would be immediately apparent

In fact it would stick out like a sore thumb!

Please lets not go down the old chestnut of paedos on camp sites

 

[Lord Braykewynde]

Why wouldn't they be on campsites Terry? Is there something special about camp/nudist sites that they can be weedled out. Not all paedophiles are single middled aged men as has been seen by those arrested in the past, even top ranking police officers. A local village Vicar near me is charged with downloading child porn off the net. He was a respected, married person of the community with children of his own. Its a fallacy (forgive the pun)that by seeing children they would become sexually aroused, after all they aren't parading up and down in front of others so that all and sundry can see their "sore thumb".

 

[LMH]

Why wouldn't they be on campsites Terry? Is there something special about camp/nudist sites that they can be weedled out. Not all paedophiles are single middled aged men as has been seen by those arrested in the past, even top ranking police officers. A local village Vicar near me is charged with downloading child porn off the net. He was a respected, married person of the community with children of his own. Its a fallacy (forgive the pun)that by seeing children they would become sexually aroused, after all they aren't parading up and down in front of others so that all and sundry can see their "sore thumb".

Well said.

 

[LMH]

⇦ Already getting visuals of Delores. Black hair done up in a roll at the back, heavy mascara, rose in her mouth and as naked as the day she was born doing the Passadoble.

Nothing wrong with your grey matter by the sounds of it!

 

[Tina3]

Terry

Excuse me... no. 1, please dont call me daft,I am no such thing,

I wouldnt call them peados,sicko's OR wierdo's I would call them all three!

I was not allowed to film my daughters school nativity play because of these people having all the rights.

L.B thankyou you are SO right, Terry get in the real world and realise these people dont look like horrible monsters out of the films, some are some of the (supposed) most respected people in Britain !

I am NOT starting an old debate merely stating why I personally would not let my children run around naked in front of strangers!which is my right as a parent as it is yours to disagree. If when they are eighteen they decide to go then thats fine,in the meantime I have absolutely no problem with adult naturist sites,

My intention was not to offend,but as L,b said why on earth do you assume they wouldnt be there!! they are everywhere.

Tina

 

[Wendy-Norfolk]

Terry

Excuse me... no. 1, please dont call me daft,I am no such thing,

I wouldnt call them peados,sicko's OR wierdo's I would call them all three!

I was not allowed to film my daughters school nativity play because of these people having all the rights.

L.B thankyou you are SO right, Terry get in the real world and realise these people dont look like horrible monsters out of the films, some are some of the (supposed) most respected people in Britain !

I am NOT starting an old debate merely stating why I personally would not let my children run around naked in front of strangers!which is my right as a parent as it is yours to disagree. If when they are eighteen they decide to go then thats fine,in the meantime I have absolutely no problem with adult naturist sites,

My intention was not to offend,but as L,b said why on earth do you assume they wouldnt be there!! they are everywhere.

Tina

Maybe Terry is not a parent himself, otherwise he would'nt have such a dogmatic view IMO!

 

[colin(bridgend)]

The way teanagers, both male and females, parade on the street these days in the evenings and at weekends one hasn't the need to go to nudist camps. Also what is wrong with the human body? It is not the body at fault but the mind within the head of that body that needs concern. Many people have pleasure in nudity and if you look back it is what we are born with - fair enough by some means or other it gets distorted by our way of life over the years, (beer, food, etc.). After all there is only two forms of nudity with a variation in size, colour, etc.

I personally would not visit a nudist site but have no objections to any person doing so if they were that way inclined. As far as perverts, etc. surely to God they will carry out their underhanded deeds discreatly under the cover of darkness, etc. and in an area they are familiar with and not at a camp site out in the open? I am in agreement with previous postings that this type of person requires treatment and the best form is to allow them the company of a few parents who have had their child offended by the pervert - they will think twice before going down the same route.

 

[LMH]

Terry

Excuse me... no. 1, please dont call me daft,I am no such thing,

I wouldnt call them peados,sicko's OR wierdo's I would call them all three!

I was not allowed to film my daughters school nativity play because of these people having all the rights.

L.B thankyou you are SO right, Terry get in the real world and realise these people dont look like horrible monsters out of the films, some are some of the (supposed) most respected people in Britain !

I am NOT starting an old debate merely stating why I personally would not let my children run around naked in front of strangers!which is my right as a parent as it is yours to disagree. If when they are eighteen they decide to go then thats fine,in the meantime I have absolutely no problem with adult naturist sites,

My intention was not to offend,but as L,b said why on earth do you assume they wouldnt be there!! they are everywhere.

Tina

Well said Tina. When I used to work with social workers it was common knowledge that in every square mile of larger villages, the towns and cities there is at least one pedophile living in within that boundary.

Lisa

 

[LMH]

Colin

The people we are referring to are extremely devious preditors who will take ANY opportunity which may arise, at ANY location.

Lisa

 

[Tina3]

I think I have un-intentionally started something that has potential to get out of hand !!

The original post from Ian basically " been to a naturist site..loved it ...try it"

my comment was I wouldn't try it as I would'nt like to take my children and the reason why! Not just peadophiles but also they themselves would feel uncomfortable naked .OF course nakedness is natural but I do Believe society has RUINED that naturalism and innocence to the point where YES as a responsible parent I DO have to consider my children.

I HAVE NO ISSUES AT ALL WITH NATURISM and am glad Ian has found something he enjoys,I respect his choices ,please respect mine

Tina xx

 

[colin(bridgend)]

Colin

The people we are referring to are extremely devious preditors who will take ANY opportunity which may arise, at ANY location.

Lisa

Lisa the point I was trying to put over was that as they would be familiar with their own territory they would know the best, quickest and easiest escape route after their wicked ways. I will agree that there are some who could be the exception and not the norm but on a camp site where there are so many people so close together and also out in the open generally till late compared to being at home - the chances of it happening are reduced.

 

[Tina3]

The way teanagers, both male and females, parade on the street these days in the evenings and at weekends one hasn't the need to go to nudist camps. Also what is wrong with the human body? It is not the body at fault but the mind within the head of that body that needs concern. Many people have pleasure in nudity and if you look back it is what we are born with - fair enough by some means or other it gets distorted by our way of life over the years, (beer, food, etc.). After all there is only two forms of nudity with a variation in size, colour, etc.

I personally would not visit a nudist site but have no objections to any person doing so if they were that way inclined. As far as perverts, etc. surely to God they will carry out their underhanded deeds discreatly under the cover of darkness, etc. and in an area they are familiar with and not at a camp site out in the open? I am in agreement with previous postings that this type of person requires treatment and the best form is to allow them the company of a few parents who have had their child offended by the pervert - they will think twice before going down the same route.

COLIN,well said and i understand your point,although when kids get to that age they are usualy wise to them and will give em an"f-off", its the little ones that are" groomed " into believing something and having thier innocence snatched.

 

[colin(bridgend)]

I think I have un-intentionally started something that has potential to get out of hand !!

The original post from Ian basically " been to a naturist site..loved it ...try it"

my comment was I wouldn't try it as I would'nt like to take my children and the reason why! Not just peadophiles but also they themselves would feel uncomfortable naked .OF course nakedness is natural but I do Believe society has RUINED that naturalism and innocence to the point where YES as a responsible parent I DO have to consider my children.

I HAVE NO ISSUES AT ALL WITH NATURISM and am glad Ian has found something he enjoys,I respect his choices ,please respect mine

Tina xx

Tina I have great respect for your concern, as a parent, for your children no matter what their age. You would not be a considerate parent if you did not have this respect. My children are 37 and 26 years of age and should any harm come to either them or my two grandchildren I would not wait for the state to deal with the culprit - I would personally sort him/her out myself even if it was to resort to murder.

 

[Tina3]

I think I have un-intentionally started something that has potential to get out of hand !!

The original post from Ian basically " been to a naturist site..loved it ...try it"

my comment was I wouldn't try it as I would'nt like to take my children and the reason why! Not just peadophiles but also they themselves would feel uncomfortable naked .OF course nakedness is natural but I do Believe society has RUINED that naturalism and innocence to the point where YES as a responsible parent I DO have to consider my children.

I HAVE NO ISSUES AT ALL WITH NATURISM and am glad Ian has found something he enjoys,I respect his choices ,please respect mine

Tina xx

We both agree there then,I just feel so passionate about it all and the sad pathetic justice system we seem to have at the moment just seems to let it carry on! There is a sort of "caravanners protection" on sites that makes you feel secure but I dont think you can ever trust 100%

Take care

Tina xx

 

[popupJohn]

Well said Tina.

I would have thought most parents would want to keep their children away from such exposure till they were old enough to form their own adult opinions on the matter.

The goverment etc may have made us over aware of the phedo. problem but its certainly a situation every parent needs to adress and act to protect against

 

[JamesFrance]

I must agree with Tina that if children are uncomfortable without clothes then they should not be taken to a naturist site.

Here in France people do not seem to expect the worst from others and the village children where I live are most polite and friendly. What a contrast to the average British teenager who would walk straight through you if you didn't step aside and would certainly not make eye contact and speak to you.

We just heard of a French grandfather who went on holiday to Spain and was screamed at by English parents for playing with their kids in the pool. He still can't believe why they had a problem with that.

 

[Terry_5094524]

Firstly appolagies to Tina. Shouldn't have called you daft, it was meant as an innocent introduction

However LB, Tina, et al

What I was trying to point out (without going into great detail) is that paedos look at children for sexual excitement. In a man this manifests itself in a very obvious way if he is not wearing clothes. Anyone walking round a nudist colony with a raging erection would soon be ejected

Hence my reference to sticking out like a sore thumb!

 

[Lord Braykewynde]

Firstly appolagies to Tina. Shouldn't have called you daft, it was meant as an innocent introduction

However LB, Tina, et al

What I was trying to point out (without going into great detail) is that paedos look at children for sexual excitement. In a man this manifests itself in a very obvious way if he is not wearing clothes. Anyone walking round a nudist colony with a raging erection would soon be ejected

Hence my reference to sticking out like a sore thumb!

....ummmm not quite the right words Terry - "Anyone walking round a nudist colony with a raging erection would soon be ejected" lolol ;O)

 

[Rioja]

Hi Ian

Am all for each to their own...consenting adults and all that ! am no prude , but my concern would be children running around naked, there are I am sure you will all agree some sick wierdo,s out thier who will do anything....go anywhere to get their thrills, I couldn't bear the thought of someone "ogling"my kids in that way.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be clear that it is a general statement NOT directed at you personally,glad you had a great time, it is a shame we have to think about these things unfortunately!

I suppose you've had all the bbq jokes so I wont even go there !!!

Tina x

I guess at least you can tell if anybody is showing too much interest to put it bluntly so to speak.

 

[Rioja]

Whilst everyone is concerned ( quite rightly) by human predators nobody has given a thought about all those little stingy insects. Ow !

 

[Tina3]

Firstly appolagies to Tina. Shouldn't have called you daft, it was meant as an innocent introduction

However LB, Tina, et al

What I was trying to point out (without going into great detail) is that paedos look at children for sexual excitement. In a man this manifests itself in a very obvious way if he is not wearing clothes. Anyone walking round a nudist colony with a raging erection would soon be ejected

Hence my reference to sticking out like a sore thumb!

Hi Terry thankyou for that,as the post has eveloved some very valid points have been raised on both sides! really didnt want to cause any trouble just explain my fears,I am a bit overprotective, its the sad society we live in now!

Take care tina xx

 

[ian_5129892]

Well Ladies and Gents,

That has certainly started a debate over children and their safety and quite rightly so, what caring mother or father would not be concerned over there childrens safety in an enviroment with naked people who are maybe total strangers!

All I can say at the old age of 50 with 4 years as a naturist.

Was firstly I was prompted to come out of the closet after watching a family on holiday, what a lovely close family they looked, I too have 4 children between my wife and myself.

In my time as a naturist at a local club and now oversea, all I have ever seen is great care for children and their safety and may I say enjoyment and entertainment, they are "children with innocent minds" and it is every true caring persons responsibility to have their welfare at heart.

Question? How many priest have been convicted of indecent assault etc, who many naturist? I know who I would trust.

Yes it can be very surreal seeing load of naked people relaxed and enjoying themselves with no cares or worries, the loving bond between couples of "all" ages young and old.

Ladies and Gents of all shapes-sizes from the very young to the very old (old being generally fitter than their textile counterparts) Remember without the trappings of everyday life we are all the same, some maybe more vunerable and insecure than others.

I now love being a naturist, the more comments I read the wider my smile, but somewhat touched by sadness at what todays society has made of us.

Right that is me off my soap box. Next Naturist holiday is in just over 2 weeks and this 50 going on 10 year old is looking forward to every minute of it.

 

[ian_5129892]

Tina,

The old jokes about the BBQ's are no joke, it darn well hurts to get hot fat on the old JT, always handy to have a glass of cold beer to hand.

It does amuse me to see young ladies maybe 10 - 17 years old in the pool during the day, just natural children enjoying splashing around. Then at night becoming the prima donna's from hell with clothes on full of attitude etc etc. does not seem to make any difference on nationality, they are still children with a lot of growing up to do.

 

[Lol1]

Perhaps we could organise the next forum meet there Colin, that would be a bit of an eyeopener 8o)

How did I miss this thread Roy!

All I can say is "You first, biker boy".

You might need a stiff drink first though.

Unlike me, I'll just have a stiff upper lip.

;o)