Hi Alan,
We have a 2004 ML270CDI auto chipped to 200bhp and 354lbs ft, we tow a 2007 Fleetwood Heritage 640es [1700kgs] with it and have no problems at all, as with all full size 4x4s it is quite thirsy but coming home from Scotland last week [500 mile round trip] it averaged 21mpg at 60mph where possible, we were fully loaded and carrying over 100kg of inflatable boat & engine as well as an awning etc, the outfit will have weighed over 4.5 tons so 21mpg is not too bad, last year we went to Cornwall with a 1400kg van and a bit less load and averaged around 25mpg at 55 to 60mph. The outfit fully loaded will stay at 60mph on cruise control up any motorway hill I have tried. Without the chip the ML does feel a bit sluggish but with it they are superb, stay away from the manual gearbox if you can find one [very rare] as they have reduced torque and the box is not very good, they are also very hard to sell unless cheap. We looked at most 4x4s but bought an ML as they drive like a car and not like a boat as most 4x4s do, they also have small overhangs and a superb steering lock.
spj