Hi Rab.
Thanks for your support.
Feeling not too bad at the mo, got my first of may physio sessions today. Not looking forward to it too much as the last time I had physio after the same op on my other shoulder I was a lot worse pain wise, before it got better. Last time the pain got so bad it sent my neck into spasumn. But I must say it ended up being a worthwhile excercise.
Hi Ian.
You realy are in a conundrum mate, I've been there myself and it realy does drive you up the wall trying to get any help from local authorities let alone the DWP. I was told that our local council wouldn't pay any ground rent as we had made ourselves intentionally homeless by selling our place before it was confiscated. Then after I had won that battle, they decided that despite us having to move off our site to a crappy pub site for january and febuary because of the license conditions applied by the same said council,and then moving back in march to a proper site (the original one), they said they would not pay ground rent on the site as the pub site where we had no shower, laundry and had to share the toilets with the pub guests who got well bladdered from thursday to sunday was adequate. I wonder if they would like to paddle in second hand beer and chips left on the floor by those who missed their target. (got the idea, couldn't be too graffic).
We are probably lucky as both of us are on ESA and requiring surgery for our ailments. It is difficult to decide just what to do, but we have said that we would go to the social housing ladder as we are both going to need a lot of medical care in the future and I am pretty certain I won't work past 60 as I've already been told I have the bones and upper body joints of an eighty year old. Or in other words I'm 30 years old before my time. We had to look at cold hard fact and that is that if we had continued with our own property that asset would be stripped down (forced to sell) to pay for our care as you only get basic help on NHS. I had experience of that last year when my dad suffered four big strokes before the final one got him. My folks had worked hard all their lives and had a lovely bungalow in the country to show for it. After stroke number three the hospital actually started to force my very bereft mother to put their home on the market to fund care home fee's as they wanted the "bed". They even gave her advice on equity release as a quick start method of moving him to the care home. fortunately or ortherwise (depends on how you look at it)my father had his final stroke which left my mum able to live in their home for now.
So, sometimes it realy is hard to go against the grain of tradition, but one does have to wonder what they have paid their taxes for over the last 35 years when you see the reality of what you get for your Ni stamp.