Whether stop start is deactivated when towing is more likely to be model specific rather than brand related.
My previous Passat DSG had a slight hesitation and clunkiness when pulling away as the DSG sorted it's self out, and it was especially noticeable if the auto hold braking system had been engaged. I found that if I lightly tapped the throttle momentarily just before needing to move the brakes released and the gear box responded more smoothly, but it was all about anticipating the road conditions.
My present Passat GTE PHEV has stop start and a dual clutch transmission, and auto hold handbrake and the combination works very well. The car is as responsive and smooth from standstill as any fluid flywheel because of the EV element and the DSG and engine start is all but imperceptible, and the auto hold handbrake works very effectively.