sadie, i dont see parksy or any other forum member in any way other than being fellow members who can contribute and give advice/suggestions to others re their queeries, after all thats the giest of a forum. however, i only suggested locking this garbage down because it has outgrown the meaning of the original posters question and turned into a slagging field for some.
i joined this forum through reading posts as a visitor and i was impressed with what i could see was a wealth of info for someone like me who has just joined the ranks to glean valuable information, and also have a wee bit of a laugh and good banter in the appropriate sections. so far it has lived up to my expectations and i enjoy reading and at times replying to others posts. we all come in here on our own accord for whatever the reasons, but i am beginnig to think some use it as an e-tool to vent their frustrations, thats the type i aint got the time for and can see them far enough.
this guy posts asking about 4x4s and look where its led, incredible, and it could give good reason for other visitors giving the forum a wide berth.
if some folks want to get things off their chest and vent some anger, then surely there are other sites suited for this that they could join and let ones like this trundle along as it should. simple as easy peasy.