I am in total agreement with Damian here, the pads last for ages*, and your issue must be down to something else.
From experience, some residual lateral loading on the ball, whilst trying to unhitch, or misalignment, creating such loading, when trying to hitch would be my prime suspects.
Changing the pads is in itself dead easy, if you can convolute yourself to get down to physically do the job. I found removing the whole hitch head unit was for me the easier way and allowed me to completely service clean and relubricate it whist it was on my bench. To make life easy I put a mandril in place of the rear bolt, to retain the damper; but I have quite a workshop, lathe etc for making up a suitable one.
* I changed our pads, sides, front and back, simply because I had covered 35 K or more miles and thought it was about time, I "should". Apart from doing so also giving the head a proper service, what a waste of time and money changing the pads proved, they had near zero attrition or damage, and never had needed touching.