Mick....You are Right about removing weight from the front axle!!
If you add weight to the rear of the car, most will be transmitted to the road via the rear axle.
The much smaller amount of weight removed from the front axle will transfer to the rear axle. This should not affect the steering, as the car was not balanced until passengers, fuel and boot load were added.
It is the rear axle stability that allows transmission of the opposing forces to counteract the lateral forces the buffeted caravan applies to the tow-ball of the car.
GF, I'm no expert in vehicle dynamics or design (my "O" Level in physics 40 years ago didn't touch on caravan stability), but I remain unconvinced by your logic. Whether towing or solo, a car with a lot of weight in the boot becomes "light" on the steering, which is something to be particularly avoided when towing. I think where I have a problem with your theory is that it over-simplifies the scenario. A car towing a caravan is a complex arrangement with all sorts of forces being applied in all sorts of directions, and as soon as additional energy is applied to the system (in this case the bow wave of the passing vehicle) the consequences are less than predictable.
I can concur with your view of attempting to "anchor" the towing vehicle to the road, but I'm not sure that extra weight in the boot, which will be behind the rear axle in most cars, is the answer. I would suggest that weight on the floor in front of the rear seats would be preferable, provided that all the manufacturer's axle weights, GVW etc are complied with.
From what I have read, most snaking incidents don't start with lateral movements, it is the pitching movement of the caravan that is the problem, applying and removing downward pressure onto the towball and so removing traction from the front wheels, leading in turn to lack of control and then sideways movements. If you've ever seen it happen, it's like one of those rodeo rides with the bull twisting and pitching in every direction. That's why so many snaking incidents end up with the outfit turning over.
Happy safe towing, one and all!
Mick