Look, why not just go with fact.
The car manufacturer will of quoted a max trailer towing capacity for your car,that is what they secify after many hours of deliberation and trials is the maximum safe tow capacity for insurance purposes.
Next, on your VIN plate there is a Max Gross train weight. Normally the largest of all the weights quoted. That is the maximum weight that your car plus caravan and all luggage/occupants can legally weigh on the highway.
Then the tow bar manufacturer will specify the down load (hitch weight) again a maximum for the tow hitch. Also the caravan manufacturer will specify their hitch weight. Use the smaller of the two as your max hitch weight.
Forget all the bull about 85% of the kerb weight giving a safe tow situation.
Go with fact as stated by the manufacturers as when you are stopped and checked by the boys in blue with the men from the ministry in tow, they only want facts not theoretical jargon.
No matter how good a solicitor is in court all the judge will want to know is wether or not the vehicle was towing above the manufacturers spec for either the car or caravan. They are not motoring officinardo's and wouldn't know a wheel nut from a spark plug about cars, all they know is law.
I know from experience of towing a trailer with a 3500Kg truck that, you need a tachograph in the truck but so long as the trailer weighs less than 1000Kgs un-laden you don't need an operators licensce. But 99.9% of the coppers didn't and boy oh boy, did they get stropy when I showed them the letter from the department of transport stating that.
Yep, I was stopped and charged so many times for not having an operators licensce that I had to get official guidance from the Dept of transport.