hi johnandrew70,
we are all here trying to help, exessive noseweight is something raised on the forum quite often and in most cases usuallly solved with effort, while some of the replies may a first seem a little terse or contradictory it has to be said sometimes,
there is a wealth of knowlege on the forum from experienced members both in the practical and technical departments and is the main reason most of us joined, opinions may differ slightly this is understandable but when posters say you need to get to grips with your problem it is from experience and meant as friendly advice only, a out of specification unit could be a dangerous illegal or unstable unit, never take things on face value.
in my honest opinion you did that from day one, assuming the standard noseweight from the factory would be as stated on the plate this is not the case, and one of the first things done at the dealers when picking up the van was to get him to test the noseweight of the empty van before attaching it to the car, as the driver you are responsible for the suitability and legality of the unit you drive and it would have given a base line from which to work from.
you said "i know the legal side of things when it comes to nose weight, after all
if i wasnt bothered by it we would not have this discussion. this may be true however the crux of the matter is in another thread dated may 6th 10.05pm you wrote "
We spent this weekend in the van and have found the creaking not so bad
so think different types of ground surface may have something to do with
it. this means seeing as how the problem still exists you are prepared to use the van with a noseweight far in exess of the maximum designed for the car and tow bar. there is no other way of saying this but thats illegal mate!. and unsafe.
you really do need to get this sorted before using the van again, how! may be more problematic and you may have to get down to basics to solve it.
it seems to me you may have two different problems although seperate could be linked, one is the low state of the car suspension on tow and the other is the van,
take the car first while all the advice on changing springs ect may be relevent put this aside for now, given that you have towed with this car before and the other van was fine, I doubt it developed a sagging bum overnight
but is possible.
this leaves the van, I have looked at all data I can find and nowere does it state the ex works noseweight only the maximum,
so given this and the fact you did not do it before, completely empty the van, and check the weight to get a base line, now add your user payload one at a time priodicaly checking the difference and moving stuff around for the best distribution,
note, looking at the photos inside and out I would estimate the axel is roundabout where the sink is! so the toilet/shower and cooker would be slightly behind so half a aquaroll stood on the bathroom floor may help, also you asked if it was ok to load under the bed well the answer is you may have to!! but put stuff towards the foot nearer the middle of the van, it should be well possible to achive 80kg, the pendulem effect so spoken about is real but would only happen if all the weight was at the back and right on the front as the weight would then oscillate around the wheels, make sure the tyres are at the correct pressure as this will reduce the effect.
once the noseweight is correct then you can hitch it to the car to see what effect it has, if it is not much better then look at improving the suspension but I will bet most of the sag will have gone at the very least now the unit would be legal to use,