hi Lonesome-Whizkid.
like the Prof, I too apologise in advance in case this post seems negative it is not meant to be and only posed because of genuine reservations about the course, one as set for oneself.
while it is true that personal choice is at the heart of our hobby one should always be aware of the pit falls one can step into as mistakes in this hobby can be very expensive.
far too often new to the hobby members post asking for advice on matching weights and suitability of their choice of van for a particular car or a combo that seems on the face of it a little advanced for a newbie. I have often wondered how they got on but unfortunatly very few reply and lets know how they did, I suspect this is because things went badly,
after all one would not buy a ocean going yacht to start sailing in or buy a Farrari as a first car after passing ones test.
a very large outfit for a starter kit could be more than one could handle as a newbie there is so much legistlation and so much too learn about loading, towing, equipment ect, one has to do reams of research and be up to date with the technical and practical side of our very enjoyable hobby before parting with our hard earned cash.
I would suggest you think long and hard before going ahead the key here is compromise, caravanning is all about it from van layouts, towcars, even down to the sites we choose to stay on.
be very sure the choice you make is right for you, it may well be fine, but then it may not be, reading your posts you seem nervious at the prospects this could be a warning, to you.
I would also suggest you consider something more manageable as a first outfit as a compromise realising the dream when you have the experience and expertise to back it up.
as I said this is not meant to be negative but just an observation from a 40+ years caravanner who would love to own a 640 Lexon but realise the Meriva would not tow it!! :woohoo: and that my friend is compromise.