Lisa, I posted something an hour or so back, but it seems to have gone missing. I am so glad you have felt able to join in this debate. So much of what is said on the subject is just blind prejudice that it makes a refreshing change to hear from someone who knows the story from the inside.
I really do believe that the 'good, honest gypsy' versus 'thieving traveller' argument is nothing more than an urban myth. I could take you to a gypsy site not to far from where I live which is a total nightmare. The police generally only enter with armed officers as backup and local residents (including those decent citizens who live on the site - I know there are some, since I have employed some of them over the years) are subject to constant harassment. Equally, as I have said before, I know of 'traveller' sites that I would be proud to live on myself.
I am by no means starry-eyed on this issue. The car park of my workplace was taken over by a large group of travellers last summer and left in a disgusting state when they moved on. No one would condone that. But on the other hand, if we as a society insist on marginalising all those whose lifestyle differs from that of the majority, we can hardly be surprised if the marginalised group fails to comply with our standards.
Most of you seem to agree that nomadic communities, whatever their origin, should pay taxes, rates etc. Yet almost invariably, when they try to do this and settle on land that they have bought, so that they can earn an honest living, send their children to school so that they in turn can get decent jobs, their attempts to join mainstream society are opposed by all and sundry in the neighbourhood, regardless of whether they are likely to be in any way adversely affected. Yet I know of many small family sites, which are beautifully landscaped and maintained with obvious pride, adding much to the local community. As I said before, I pass three such (on the A16 if anyone is interested) every day and defy anyone to say that they have in any way caused harm to the area. I have no idea of the ethnicity of the residents. But when people work hard, care for their homes and environment, I admire their efforts, whether their home is a caravan or a mansion.