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This just in - food for thought?

Research, conducted by YouGov for Scottish Widows, reveals that 1 in 4 families(*) have fallen out over the contents of a will, with a staggering 42% of siblings never speaking again. It also reveals that women are more likely to hold a grudge than men with 46% (compared to 36%) of women falling out with brothers and sisters permanently.

When it comes to dividing of an estate, money is by far the biggest sticking point for families, with 35% of all rows being over the cold hard cash. 1 in 5 (20%) think the estate was divided unfairly, 12% felt they deserved more cash, while 5% contested that they were verbally promised an item that wasn't then left to them.

Psychologist Donna Dawson, reveals that family rows over inheritance is unfortunately not an uncommon occurrence; "Money is a very emotional issue, and never more so than at the time of a family member's death when feelings are running high and old jealousies resurface. Often for those family members left behind, primitive tribal feelings will come to the fore. This is especially true of step-brothers and sisters where 'blood' relatives will feel more entitled to cash than those related by marriage."

Almost two thirds (60%) of people have yet to make a will, and it seems that only something life changing such as illness (49%) a serious accident (38%) or having kids (28%) will prompt those who haven't to finally take action. A staggering 16% have no intention of ever making one.

Anne Young, tax expert at Scottish Widows comments, "The research reveals a general misconception that making a will should only be done when the person making it has substantial wealth to leave. It is true that the bigger the estate, the more complex the division of it will be however, a will isn't just about the estate. It can prevent arguments over who'll look after children right down to the divvying up of items that may be of little monetary value but which could cause unnecessary upset if fought over by those left behind."

YouGov questioned a representative 2,294 people between 28-31st October 2005 and further statistics include the following:-

51% of those not planning to make a will don't think they'll leave an inheritance when they die

1 in 5 people (20%) never speak to their mother again after a row over inheritance

12% of people argued over who received what due to a will not being in place

11% of people would make a will primarily to stop someone they don't like receiving any of their estate.

* According to the research 10% of adults have fallen out over a will which equates to 4,420,000 people. There are 17 million families in the UK (source ONS). Therefore one in four families have fallen out over money.
 

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Good posting Clive,

I have seen the problems caused by the death of parents and the ensuing fight for the things left behind, and the breakup of what was a close family, or so I thought.

I believe everyone should make a will, even if it is to leave their stuff to a charity or whatever, just to stop any unclaimed money going into the governments pocket.
 
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Thank you Damien

I bet most people who reside in Cornwall do not know that if they die single without having made a Will they risk their estate going to Prince Charles (Duchy of Cornwall) rather than the Government!

For interest I post our leaflet which outlines the Laws of Intestacy (sounds like an awful "gonad" disease - but actually means you have dies without identifying what you want done with your estate). I have obviously removed all Company References to comply with Forum etiquette.

Dying without leaving a Will (intestate) - Who gets what?

If you die without leaving a valid Will then the law decides who gets what? Here is a guide to what would happen.

If you have a lawful spouse (ie you are legally married)

If your estate is worth less than
 
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Good posting Clive im sure my children will fall out over who gets the bulk of my debt lol

But seriously my wife and i need to make a will its just something we never seem to get round to.
 
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If you have young kids - it is not about the money - more important is the fact that you can stipulate who looks after your kids in the event of you both dying or becoming incapacitated.

Strangly in the UK Grandparents/Brothers/Sisters etc have little rights over Grandchildren/Nephews or Nieces. So in the event of a tragedy - often the children get put into care.

Clearly not the best option in my book. Far better to stipulate who you want to look after them in your Will and make sure that all family are aware.

You can get a Will Document from WH Smiths for a few
 
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I recently used one of these will experts to prepare wills for both myself and SWMBO.

I can vouch for what Clive says they know their stuff and take partiular care in areas that involve the kids.

The guy who did ours even catered for scenarios which included both our demise and also the demise of the obvious guardian of my 8 year old.

The thing I found particularly attractive was the storage offer, for a nominal fee not only do they keep the will safe but any ammendments you want to make between now and death are all done FOC.
 
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I recently used one of these will experts to prepare wills for both myself and SWMBO.

I can vouch for what Clive says they know their stuff and take partiular care in areas that involve the kids.

The guy who did ours even catered for scenarios which included both our demise and also the demise of the obvious guardian of my 8 year old.

The thing I found particularly attractive was the storage offer, for a nominal fee not only do they keep the will safe but any ammendments you want to make between now and death are all done FOC.
Pleased you hyave found the same on a personal front Graham.

I was somewhat peturbed when one of the Solicitors I used to regularly refer clients too stated that they took the minimum time they could and "did not dig too deeply". When I expressed surprize he told me that the main reason Solicitors do will was to build up a "book" of clients that in years to come would provide them with the far more lucrative probate work!

These specialist firms tend to get our referals now, the clients are very pleased with the standard of service and the cost is about 1/2 to 2/3's of what a solicitor would charge.
 

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