What great topic. I love how the majority of people jump to the conclusion that it is older people that have Blue Badges.
I am afraid this is not always the case as people can suffer a disability at any age.
For me, I was thirty two and I had a motorcycle accident which broke my back and crushed my spinal cord leaving me wheelchair dependent for the rest of my life. You might have seen some of the posts I have made previously where I will rant about things but this is something I do have real knowledge of.
When I first started using my wheelchair I would make all sorts of comments to people about parking in disabled parking bays and after being threatened a few times I have now given up because I don't want thumped by some idiot. If they are inclined to park in a disabled bay, having a dig at them is not going to stop it. THEY DON'T CARE.
With regards to the parking spaces being close to the door, I honestly don't think this is completely necessary because as many people have pointed out, people who use a wheelchair can push themselves for the majority of the time. I would be quicker across a car park than most able bodied people so I think there has to be a bit of give and take. I do appreciate that there are genuine people who need to park near to the door due to mobility issues but I consider myself to be fit enough to park further away as long as the space is large enough.
This is another point that someone has made, the width of the spaces. Being independent I need to open my door fully to get my wheelchair in and out of the car. I am sure that if I scratched your car with my chair you would have something to say about it. I have parked in 'normal' spaces numerous times and on return to my car I find the idiot next to me has parked too close and I can't get into my car, so I have to go to customer services and put a message over the tannoy or wait on them returning and when they return they complain and say I should have parked in a disabled bay. YOU CAN'T WIN
Regarding the parent and child parking spaces, I never use them because they are for that very reason but it would be helpful as I explained earlier, I need a wider space to get my chair in and out so it would be beneficial for me to use one of those spaces but I don't want the hassle from someone who has kids.
Someone else mentioned that the spaces would have to be policed. This is the only way it would work, but as someone pointed out, these spaces are for everyone to use and it is not against the law to use them, it is purely courtesy not to use them so until it is policed there isn't anything anyone can do.
I was recently in Devon and when I parked in a disabled space a chap went past me a glared in the car at me. I did put my blue badge on the dashboard of my car but he continued to glare at me. When I got my chair out of the car he then stopped glaring at me but I could see he was really angry. I am only forty years old now and I have numerous friends who are in their teens who drive cars and have blue badges so think of the looks they get. One in particular is a young girl with blacked out windows, loud exhaust and music blaring out of her car. She is only in her early twenties but I have been with her when people stare at her and we have both been challenged on numerous occasions. I played basketball with a guy who used to shout at others "you have my parking space, would you like my disability?' until this backfired on him. It was the person in the rear of the car who required assistance.
I know that this will put the cat amongst the pigeons and I am sure I will be battered with comments about being treated different and having 'special treatment' but I am big enough to comment on it so I am happy to take it on the chin.
I look forward to the bombardment.
Dougy