See, I'm kind of with otherclive on this. I drive quite a few different cars, and for all their smoothness in most circumstances I find most BEV's and DCT autos to be really quite irritating when it comes to precision creeping movement - like when parallel parking for instance. Very difficult to control the last few mm - not helped by hysterical front and back sensors which can both be going off at the same time if it's a particularly tight manoeuvre. Electric parking brakes, autohold and so on, make the transition between moving and not moving totally binary. Analogue can be more enjoyable.
It depends.
I have had just 5 auto cars. Starting way back with a Morris Marina, so not very up to date.
The SsangYong 2015 was controllable at slow speeds, but had very harsh gear changes. Then the Volvo V70 was just about perfect. Followed by an MG ZS which was just as you are describing at low speeds, (it is the reason I got rid of it), but gear changes were fine. My present Mazda is like the Volvo, excellent.
Cars are not all the same.
I would prefer an old fashioned hand brake even though my current electronic one releases smoothly.
I once had a manual Citroen XM with a foot operated hand brake. It was released with a hand button. Once I got the hang of it, hill starts were easy enough.
John